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For as long as I can remember, I’ve loved iconic red lips. But loving red lips is different from wearing (and rocking) red lips. Here’s how I learned to pull them off.
1988. My dad gives me an acting kit with waxy stage makeup pencils in blue, black, red, and white. I request red lips and a beauty mark. A three-year-old with red lips? Alas, the lips are wearing me and not the other way around.
1992. As as second-grader, I read my grandmother’s Good Housekeeping and find out a way to make your lips look fuller is tracing just outside your natural lip with lip liner. I convince my mom to let me buy cheap makeup for “dress up,” then sneakily try the technique with red lipstick. Unsurprisingly, I look like a clown.
1998. My mom lets me wear makeup, but draws the line at red lips. For her, that’s just too much. I realize the only way I’m going to get away with a red pout is for educational purposes: during the school plays. From eighth grade on, I wear red lipstick for almost every role I play.
2007. Now off to college and free to look like a harlot whenever I choose, I buy a tube of Clinique Vintage Wine. It’s really red, and makes me feel incredibly glamorous. At first, I save it for special occasions (formal events) and always play it safe: I put my hair in a pretty, low ponytail and stick to very basic makeup. It’s a good introduction.
2008. I move to NYC to work at ELLE Magazine and am empowered by all the fabulous, fashionable women in the city. One day I decide to try red lips with my hair down and a neon green T-shirt. As I walk around SoHo, I feel fantastic and confident. I know it’s bold but I don’t care—which is exactly why it works.
2010 and beyond. I wear red lips whenever I feel like it. I try to avoid pairing them with retro dresses but I’ll wear them with pretty much anything else: jeans and a T-shirt, a semi-formal dress, a sweater. I still stick with my Clinique Vintage Wine—why mess with a good thing?
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